TTC for 3 years and giving up hope?

I know 2 couples who tried for a long time 7 years for one of them and the other for 10 years before they conceived. It happens. And you are not being punished. Being emotionally well will help. I conceived using Clomid and a IUI. You have not even got into the heavy stuff for fertility treatment yet so do not give up hope. There are still many more ways that the doctors can help you conceive. It will happen!