Were we moving too fast?

First of all are you guys dating? if your not dating it seem a little friend with benefit it mean a friend that you have sex with or other physically things no strings attached. No committed relationship.First go out with him like atleast 10 dates or activity/time with him.Dont give him all the gift that keeps on giving you have to get to know the person to fall in love with the person.not to be sexually attracted to him.I know the first crush or the first love is the sweetest but the first cut is the deepest.Im not saying his a bad person it just you have to know the person more and think that he is the one for you quality is more important than quantity.I think you did the righ decision because if you really wanted to lose your virginity to him you would not doubt your self.