I want to move to Miami with my kids. What should I do?

What should I do here? My kids father took me to court to stop relocation. He wants me to stay in CT so we can take care of the kids together. I want to move to Florida and raise my 3 kids there. I can't stand my kids father cause he doesn't want me to enjoy Florida and have fun in the sun. I might miss out on my dream man in Miami if I stay here in Connecticut. What should I do now? I'm crying here.